Since the days of the American Revolution, individualism has been a signature of our culture. Unique to America was the ideal that every person regardless of class was free to make the most out of their life as far as they were able. It was and is a worthy ideal that we have yet to fully realize although we have made much progress. Sadly in the last 80 or so years, the ideal has become distorted.
The historic heroes of individualism were celebrated not only for their courage and perseverance, but also for their commitment to the communities they served. What made them heroic was their sense of duty and obligation to others. That began to change in drastic ways during the 1980s and has continued to the present day. Individualism has come to stand for the self and the self alone. The emphasis has been on my rights, not our rights, my freedom not our freedom, my welfare not our welfare. That kind of individualism is inclined to blind one to the duties and obligations each has for the communities in which they live. The move generated new fictional heroes in spaghetti westerns and hundreds of revenge movies. They glorified the hero who commits horrific acts in the name of self righteous justice. They can only destroy they cannot build up.
There are places where it is said that we look after each other, but that seems to be true, mostly in the breach. It depends in large part on whether the other is just like me and not much farther away than my nearest neighbors. Individualism now appears to mean that for me to win you must lose. Relationships are defined as transactions in which each wrestles for the advantage. Trump is the most obvious example of what that looks like in real life, but he is not the cause. He is only the natural outgrowth of a process long underway. In other words, we created Trump and made it possible for him to do what he does.
The nations motto is e pluribus unum, out of many one. The English poet, John Donne, famously wrote in the time of plague that “no man is an island: any one’s death diminishes me.” In more optimistic times it might be rephrased to say that no man is an island: my prosperity depends on the prosperity of everybody else, especially the least advantaged.
Spiritual leaders have always known that achieving one’s spiritual hopes can be done only in community. There is no such thing as my spiritual reality. For spirituality to be real it must be a shared reality open to all who are willing to receive it. For example, Christians and Jews are commanded to love one another in ways that build up the community and expand the scope of moral and economic justice for those to whom it has been denied. Buddhists are commanded to surrender craving for self satisfaction, especially when it comes at the cost of dissatisfaction for others. Western ethics has been strongly influenced by Aristotle for whom the character of a ‘man’ was marked by ‘his’ ability to control his passions and ‘his’ commitment to the good of the community.
Some part of the solution must rely on public thought leaders to emphasize freedom for not freedom from. Not freedom from any and all restrictions on individual desires and wants, but freedom for contributing to the greater welfare of the community. In like manner, community planners must emphasize designs that bring people together, not spread them out. They must consider the ease and efficiency of getting around in an environmentally sound and healthy way possible for most people. Teachers must emphasize that what is most important about individual virtues is how they contribute to the building up of a healthy community.
America’s future does not depend on it being the greatest. It depends on it being a good nation. A good nation for all of its people living in community with one another. Perhaps we will never reach goodness, but we can be better. We cannot become better if we continue worshiping individualism in the way we have in these recent decades.
What we need are celebrated public heroes to show us how to be individualists in service to the greater good, and there are plenty to draw from. Washington and Lincoln come to mind. Consider the courage of Frederick Douglass, John Lewis, Sojourner Truth, Harriet Tubman, Sitting Bull, Red Cloud, Frances Perkins, and who knows how many more Americans have been willing to stand alone as a courageous leader on behalf of others and the communities they represented and worked to build up. If the myth of the American cowboy has come to dominate what rugged individualism means, consider that the classic western hero was always committed to the welfare of the other, especially the oppressed other.